• Are you tempted to cheat? You are not alone. Read this to dig deeper into why you might feel like cheating on your spouse.
    For the Wife,  Infidelity,  Struggles

    Are you tempted to cheat on your spouse?

    It wasn’t long after I got married that one of my friends got a divorce. I knew their marriage was in trouble…but divorce!? I was so confused. But then I heard the truth…she’d met another man. A “nice” man she worked with (who isn’t really nice if he stole another man’s wife). One who “listened” to her. She’d been tempted to cheat and succumbed to that temptation. I’m going to be honest. I judged her. Harshly. I would NEVER do that! It’s easy to judge someone when you are first married. Totally in love. Smitten. Hubby can do no wrong. But chances are, if you are reading this, you might…

  • Before we married, male friendships were acceptable, but what about after? Here are 10 reasons why married women should not have male friends.
    For the Wife,  Infidelity,  Struggles

    Why Married Women Should Not Have Male Friends

    On a mission-field-bound plane, we started talking. We shared a lot in common: age, love for Jesus, and an adventurous spirit. Perfect fit, right? But among our similarities, included marriage…and kids. Despite my efforts to push it down this inappropriate attraction, I could feel it blooming. And it didn’t help that he was cute: surfer-boy-with-dreadlocks cute with an ounce of bad-boy-gone good. Since this wasn’t the first time I had a male friend while married, I knew that “keeping it completely platonic” was a joke. Marriage is Serious Business, Friendships Come Second Marriage is a serious commitment. We have to treat it with respect. Many women believe they can continue…

  • Many wonder if married women can have male friends or not. Here are some great questions to ask to see if your marriage can withstand a male friendship.
    For the Wife,  Infidelity,  Struggles

    The Male Friendship Test for Married Women

    Maybe you just got married to the “love of your life” and are wondering if your “male best friend” is appropriate anymore. Maybe your husband is expressing concern over your male friendship. Maybe you’ve been married a while and are developing a male friendship at work but feel concerned it’s not okay. Whatever the reason, I’ll give you the “male friendship test for married women” to help you make a decision whether or not you should rethink male friendships. The Five Tests a Male Friend MUST Pass Before He Can Be Friends With a Married Woman Test #1 I discovered this “male friendship test for married women” by accident. Soon…

  • Can a married woman have male friends? While there is no hard and fast rule, here is a challenge to married women to reconsider having close male friends.
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    5 Reasons Why Married Women Should Rethink Male Friends

    Many times my husband and I sit at dinner with another married couple. My husband and I engaged in conversations with the both of them throughout the evening. On occasion, my friend must excuse herself to attend to some matter. And even rarer occasion, my husband needs to do something at the same time, leaving me in the presence of a friend’s husband. Most times, the conversation continues without a hiccup and my husband or friend will return within minutes and reignite their contribution to the gathering. If we are left alone for more than a few minutes, in those moments I will make an excuse to leave the vicinity. I believe removing yourself from an…